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Notice the Good

Created Jul 24, 2026, 10:27 AM · Updated Jul 24, 2026, 10:27 AM

Notice the good means naming the specific helpful move so people know what to repeat.

Key Concept

  • “Good job” teaches nothing. “Your rebounds won that scrimmage” teaches the rep.
  • Level 1: Good job says nothing - Your rebounds won that game tells them exactly what to do again, like pointing at the exact move that worked instead of clapping with no detail.
  • Level 2: Notice-the-good means specific praise - name the rep that worked, not empty approval.
  • Level 3: Good job teaches nothing - Your rebounds won that scrimmage teaches the behavior to repeat.
  • Level 4: Praise the exact move you want copied - vague approval feels nice and changes nothing.
  • Level 5: Coaching Ethics and Gentleness both need precision - empty cheer is Name the Feeling without the Complete the Cycle that builds skill.
  • Specific praise names the behavior I want again - that is how Process Over Outcomes sounds out loud.
  • Vague thanks flatters; spelled-out moves give people something to repeat tomorrow.
  • The stake is reinforcement: praise the scoreboard and the steady process stays invisible.

Examples

  • After practice I told the kid who boxed out every drill that his rebounds won the scrimmage and he should keep sealing like that.
  • I emailed the intern that catching the duplicate invoice before I did saved us a call - specific beats a generic thanks slide.

Note Relationships

RelationshipWikilinkReason
contradictsOutcomes Over Pitch Deckswhen only results get praised and the steady process gets ignored
extendsContinuous ImprovementNaming what worked feeds the next rep
extendsProcess Over OutcomesI reinforce the behavior in the loop, not only the score
extendsThe Golden RuleSpecific praise is how I would want to be treated
implementsFollow Their LeadSometimes the best lead to follow is the good thing they already did
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